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Note: These submissions don't reflect a universal experience of sex acts that women and men enjoy. Everyone's story is different.

"If you struggle to have sex twice in a short time period, keep in mind that penis-in-vagina sex is often the worst way to help a woman orgasm. Learn to give good head.

I'd also suggest trying your best not to be self-conscious about the size of your penis. There really are cons to a big penis, and pros to a smaller one. And the only reason to really care about its size is because of how it affects your partner. Your pleasure has nothing to do with your size. Even if you have a micropenis. Seriously, stop worrying. Your best bet to helping a woman finish is to use your words, your tongue, your hands, and then your penis. You can learn to use all four better. You can't make your penis bigger — if none of that can help you stop fussing about it, consider that confidence is itself attractive.

If you feel like your partner doesn't care about your pleasure, talk about it. Men are also capable of having bad sex. Communicate!"

"And when it comes to after having sex, I'd suggest cuddling. Most people love it, I find. Spoon her. If it's uncomfortably hot and sweaty, feel free to take a second to cool down a bit before you do this. Maybe take a pee break (UTIs are a drag, or so I hear). If you had fun, tell her so. Maybe don't ask if she had an orgasm. It can kind of come off as insecure, or like you're looking for some sort of 'macho' validation. Just snuggle up, play with her hair, maybe kiss her neck a bit. Unless this isn't that kind of sex. That might come off a bit clingy if it's casual."

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