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13 Modern Dating "Rules" That Are Absolutely Destroying Gen Z's Chance At Finding True Love
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As a full-time writer at BuzzFeed Canada, I cover all things pop culture and food. "A lot of people just don't understand what it takes to sustain a long term relationship, they don't know how to develop patience, to learn and grow with someone. Also people often just get with awful people sometimes. It's better to drop someone who will never change anything about themselves for the better. Sometimes you don't know you moved in with a wolf until it takes off it's sheep's clothing." "People are content with being alone more than ever. At least in my case you'd be competing with my peace, tranquility, and sense of self. Any time I like a guy I turn into a self conscious and insecure mess. Lots of guys like getting attention from other women while they're in relationships. I've seen it from married men hitting on me. I've also seen men not be outright adulterers, but they follow instathots and watch po*n regularly. No, thanks." "And it's faulty logic. 'By the time they realize, they forgive it.' No. No they won't. They ghost you. Your have been better off with honesty." "The amount of single dads that tried this on me for the short time I tried OLD was diabolical. I couldn't have been more intentional in repeating that I wasn't interested in single dads." "Blackpill is basically dating hypercynicism/fatalism." Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.