“He made the other girl his lock screen and forgot to change it back when we went out.”

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"I left work immediately and drove to the middle school where he teaches to confront him. No students were in the classroom during the planning period, and he just denied everything. I packed up my shit that same day and never looked back. Found out that he had been doing this ever since we were dating."

"My son told me, and I filed for divorce. My husband claims it wasn't an affair because they didn't sleep together. I say it was an affair and filed for divorce two days later. And including my son was another form of abuse. That's his child, not his buddy. He was supposed to protect him from the ugly in the world, even if that ugly was him."

"I don’t have social media, but in my desperate confusion, I made a Facebook account and looked her up. She had never broken up with the previous guy. She lived with him. Cheated on both of us for eight months straight."

"I immediately left the house with no intention of ever returning. I drove north for about two hours before convincing myself to turn around. I got home four hours later. He was awake but had no idea what was going on. I let him explain his side of the story. He, of course, blamed me. I had been going to bed early because I was going into work at 5:45 am, and I wasn’t paying enough attention to him. He also said that he didn’t ask her to send those pics or dirty messages, and he didn’t even know she had sent them. She was drunk and did it on her own. She called me the next day, crying, taking all the blame, profusely apologizing, and asking me not to tell any of our other friends, because my husband had always been 'like a brother' to her.

I always knew that he was 100% involved and responsible for what I saw. I just didn’t want my family to tell me they told me so…While I do love my four babies, I have often thought that my life might’ve been drastically better had I just swallowed my pride and left him for good that day."

"At 4:30 a.m., she got up out of bed and said she was going to pick her brother up from a party. COVID lockdown had just ended, so everyone was partying. We have two young kids, so we didn't go out. She comes home just over an hour later and jumps into bed wearing sexy underwear, which was the opposite of what she went to bed wearing.

I woke up with the kids at 7, and the whole situation didn't sit right with me. I took the dash cam footage from the car and loaded it onto the computer. There it was, clear as day, some dude who did not look like her brother at all was thankful she came to pick him up, and they flirted in the car for a bit before dropping him off at his house.

It was difficult to watch, but when I confronted her, she broke down and confessed. Two weeks later and the car was sold, six weeks after that the house was sold, a year later and were divorced."

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