Eileen’s husband currently receives a trust check every quarter. But the couple, both in their 60s, recently discovered that if he dies before she does, Eileen won’t inherit his share. Rather, the $2 million trust will pass on to the couple’s daughter, who is next in his family’s bloodline.

Eileen will receive nothing. “We’re just wondering if it would be ethical for us to ask her to split the inheritance if he pre-deceases me,” Eileen, who lives in Albany, NY, asked during a recent episode of The Ramsey Show (1).

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But The Ramsey Show hosts tell Eileen that asking their daughter for a cut of her inheritance feels “gross.” Here’s what the couple could do instead (and what they should have done earlier).

Bloodline trusts, also called dynasty trusts, are used to protect family wealth — particularly as blended families become more commonplace. But most people have no idea these trusts exist or what they actually mean for a surviving spouse’s financial security.

While about 1.8 million Americans got divorced in 2023, two-thirds of divorced Americans marry again, according to an analysis from Pew Research Centre (2). And more than one in five (21.2%) U.S. couples who live together have children from a previous relationship, according to U.S. Census Bureau data (3).

A trust bypasses the probate process and creditors can’t go after trust assets. A bloodline trust, more specifically, can also preserve family wealth for direct descendants (the bloodline), such as children and grandchildren, so assets stay in the family (4).

Once the trustor (the person who creates the trust) passes away, the trust becomes irrevocable. In other words, the terms are set in stone and it can’t be modified in any way.

A bloodline trust is designed to protect family wealth from, say, a spouse who divorces a direct descendent and then remarries someone else. That way, the family’s assets won’t be diverted to the new spouse or stepchildren.

However, it also disinherits a beneficiary’s spouse and other loved ones, simply because they don’t share the same blood.

It can also backfire. For example, if a couple has two children — one is adopted — the ‘bloodline’ child would inherit the family wealth and the adopted child would receive nothing.

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In most states, a surviving spouse has elective share rights (typically 30% to 50% of the estate) that can override a will — a law intended to safeguard the surviving spouse from being left with nothing (5).

But bloodline trusts are structured to avoid this. Many spouses, like Eileen, may not realize they don’t have a legal right to those assets. And there’s nothing her husband can do about it, either. As a beneficiary, he can’t alter the trust or name other beneficiaries.

So should they ask their daughter, who is now 24, for a cut — if the situation comes to pass?

“I personally would feel gross about doing that,” said Ramsey co-host Ken Coleman.

Ideally, the couple would have purchased life insurance long ago to ensure the surviving spouse would be well taken care of (premiums are typically more expensive if you buy insurance later in life). Life insurance provides a guaranteed, tax-free death benefit with immediate liquidity (it doesn’t go through probate).

But, Eileen and her husband had been counting on the trust money instead. Currently, they have about $350,000 in savings, including 401(k)s, with about $99,000 left to pay on their mortgage. Both plan to keep working during their 60s.

“Whatever you guys can do over the next seven to 10 years to invest a lot of money, that’s going to help you be far more comfortable in your 70s and 80s,” said Coleman.

For example, instead of asking their daughter for a cut of her inheritance in the event of her father’s death, they could take the trust money he’s already receiving each quarter and put it into an account in his wife’s name.

Coleman says their focus should be on investing as much as they can at this stage, which will “turn into a sizable chunk” and provide his wife with a comfortable retirement — should she outlive him — without having to rely on his family’s bloodline trust.

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