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People Who Had Sex With Someone "Forbidden" Are Anonymously Sharing Their Secrets, And...Whoa
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"I was 25 and engaged when I tagged along to my then-fiancé's work Christmas party. I knew a few people there already but got introduced to a bunch of others, one of whom was this tall guy with the sexiest almond-shaped eyes I had ever seen in my life."" I'm a Senior Staff Writer who writes a wide range of topics, spanning from people's real-life drama to pop culture to funny things I find on the internet. "He started talking about how good it was and that he was 17 and in high school or something. That really put the age gap into perspective. Things fizzled out after he tried to sleep with my friend a bunch of times while we were still hooking up. It was the same friend whose brother I had slept with." "He called it his last fling since he was getting married the next week, and I was perfectly okay with it. That was our one and done. Fast forward three years, and my bestie and his brother are getting married. I was the maid of honor, and he was the best man. While in the limo, with the newlyweds sticking their heads out the sunroof, he tried to sleep with me. He literally tried all night. I told him it would never happen again since he was now married, and it didn't. He's been married for over 30 years now, but that one night still makes me smirk when I think of it. Not one of my proudest moments, but a fun one." "But he and I remained friends. We would always hang out when I was home on break. He'd want to go out drinking, I was the designated driver, and would drive him home. One night, he wanted to sleep over, and when we got into my room, he asked if he could share my bed with me. I agreed, we ended up feeling each other up, jerking off, and I went down on him. He asked if I had condoms. I was in shock and said 'You want me to f*ck you?' and I think that verbiage freaked him out, and we just fell asleep after that. A few months later he called while I was in school, told me I needed to sit down. He said he got a girl pregnant and was marrying her. I was in shock. We remained friends, though. I visited him and his wife once when I was home. Tension remained, but we didn't act on it. We stayed close until I met someone. I remember him asking whether my partner was a good man, and I told him he was. That was the last time I spoke to him. He dropped contact, found 'Jesus,' and had two more kids. Now he's just a ghost of a memory. "